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cathuggerDay #29: What has helped you cope with the stress of this lifestyle?
I'll list a few things that come to mind.
-My cats. They've always given me a reason to keep going, and they're really good at comforting me. It's also nice that they'll come to visit me when I'm lying down when I don't have people who can/will.
-My partner. I've never been as comfortable around anyone else. He knows me really well, and we've been through some tough times together I didn't think we'd make it through. He's stuck around when he probably should have left. Several years later, he's still with me and understands the whole chronic illness thing surprisingly well.
-My mom. We usually don't get along too well, and things can be chaotic between us, but she lives with many of the same illnesses. I learn a lot from her, and she plans a lot of my appointments for me because I can't get myself to talk to people. This lifestyle would've been much harder without her.
-Coffee. It seems to help with my pain and therefore makes me more functional.
-Online communities. Knowing others who also live with chronic illness can be comforting and can help me have lower expectations of myself.
-Food that's easy to get and eat. Do I really have to explain this one?
I'll list a few things that come to mind.
-My cats. They've always given me a reason to keep going, and they're really good at comforting me. It's also nice that they'll come to visit me when I'm lying down when I don't have people who can/will.
-My partner. I've never been as comfortable around anyone else. He knows me really well, and we've been through some tough times together I didn't think we'd make it through. He's stuck around when he probably should have left. Several years later, he's still with me and understands the whole chronic illness thing surprisingly well.
-My mom. We usually don't get along too well, and things can be chaotic between us, but she lives with many of the same illnesses. I learn a lot from her, and she plans a lot of my appointments for me because I can't get myself to talk to people. This lifestyle would've been much harder without her.
-Coffee. It seems to help with my pain and therefore makes me more functional.
-Online communities. Knowing others who also live with chronic illness can be comforting and can help me have lower expectations of myself.
-Food that's easy to get and eat. Do I really have to explain this one?
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